All the military spouse/mothers know that family emergencies, flat tires, and emergency room visits happen ONLY when the Hub is deployed!! First off I would like to say that from the time Lany was old enough to move around she has bumped, banged, crashed, fell into everything and anything and I have been WAITING for my day in the ER.
SO... because the Hub was deployed... which makes danger OFFICIAL... I have been holding my breathe!!!
The day I was to pull out of GA and start the journey to CA my car wouldn't start and I needed a jump... blessed, it caused me no further problems until we were safe at my Mom's house, and then I had to buy a new battery!
Six and a half months of waiting it happened!!!! LUCKILY (or maybe inconveniently)the incident occurred a week after Ro came home for RnR!!
Sunday afternoon,
lunch is done,
waiting for nap time,
Ro and I were in the living room,
the kids were playing WITH THE DOOR OPEN in their room,
I heard Lany say, "I'm sorry LV, I'm sorry" Which is the routine when she doesn't want him to tell on her,
I waited,
no crying,
nothing,
about 3 minutes later the Boy walks out, holding his right arm,
there was no crying because he was stuck in one of those no breathers,
wrist was swollen,
CRYING when we tried to see if everything was OK,
he could NOT grip,
SO...
to urgent care,
waiting,
waiting,
doc checked wrist,
waiting,
x rays which made him CRY due to the forced movement,
waiting,
waiting,
doc comes in,
says he couldn't see any breaks BUT he could not read the xray,
I would have to wait till the next evening AFTER 5 pm,
said he didn't think anything was wrong,
that LV was only CRYING because he was scared...
WHAT????!!!!!! THE BOY IS OBVIOUSLY HURT!!!!!! HE STILL HAD NOT MOVED HIS ARM!!! WAS STILL FAVORING IT!!!! WAS STILL CRYING, LETHARGIC, AND VISIBLY IN PAIN!!!! I WAS SO FREAKEN MAD THAT I DIDN'T SAY A WORD!!!
Doc says do you want me to wrap his wrist in an ace bandage,
through gritted teeth I say SURE!


Monday morning,
call our primary care,
cant get an appointment till Tuesday morning,
Tuesday morning the boy and I go to the docs,
as soon as the doc walks in he says I think his elbow is dislocated,
I have seen this before many times,
and the way he is holding his arm (which as a limp hang at the side of his body),
The doc graciously listened to my FULL story,
ordered full DETAILED xrays,
we waited,
NO BREAK,
NO FRACTURE,
doc did a little maneuver,
said he should be better,
wrapped his arm,
we went home,
the boy took a nap,
when he woke,
MOVEMENT HAD RETURNED!!
still favoring it,
still was aware of the pressure he applied,
BUT,
VISIBLY BETTER.
I have never wanted to kiss an Doc or call and sing my praise but HECK!! I was so happy! and all it took was for a doc to ACTUALLY pay attention!! I guess I lucked out on the NO BREAK thing,
BUT... this happened on Sunday 13, Sept.
SINCE THEN...
LV has fallen off a 5 foot play structure at the park, STRAIGHT onto his head!
Fallen 4 1/2 feet off the play fort we have in our back yard, complete somersault in the air and skidded FACE FIRST into the wood chips!!
And last night busted his lip on the tonka truck, blood, YES!!!
Guess I have to HOLD MY BREATHE